Buongiorno Marco,
It is as I predicted ECE engine ECU can only correctly control its own idle valve (3 pin) not the other one (2 pin from KAT / RuF). It is not problem one pin to disconnect but the fact that between them airflow and electrical characteristics (PWM versus opening angle) are totally different...
About Information from Mercedes they delivered KAT/RuF new engine for your car as a whole, with intake manifold, with exhaust manifold and with KE Injection in plače. They always do it like this if you buy complete engine and not half engine (without cylinder head) it is normal that during installation mechanics make only thing possible by keeping old ECE Manifold and Injection head of that car - as also airflow meter is different between ECE and non-ECE.
RuF/Kat Manifold of that new engine usually is not given to car owner but becomes property of Garage and spare part.
Mercedes as company has Quality control on everything and is not possible for them to deliver engine that is KAT/RuF, has lower compression pistons - but with ECE Manifold mounted on top, instead of correct for that Part No of engine - it’s KAT/RuF manifold belonging to it from Catalogue of spare parts.
I mean they look similar and pins are at the same place BUT electric characteristic of ECE Airflow meter and EHA valve are completely different

to KAT/RuF. Seems that they either knew it or it was pure luck not to mount new KAT/RuF manifold. If they have missed it mount KAT/RuF airflow meter on ECE engine ECU engine would of stall and never accelerate correctly. I think during change of engines they got a HINT on that from Stuttgart because it is not Info everybody knows...
About spark plug H5DCO perfect choice - listen ECE and RuF are nearly the same combustion (therefore same spark plugs fit in those engines) and only KAT version of the same engine is different needing colder spark plugs. Why?
Only Compression of theoretical two Bar more (remember every engine is different coming out of same factory not every engine has new same compression therefore in catalogue they say “compression new 12-14 Bar” it is normal industrial tolerances in serial production of any merchandise) don’t heat spark plugs more BUT what can heat sparkplugs more is different camshaft or catalyst backpressure or hotter burning environment because of turbo/kompressor or different fuel like E85 or LPG or lean mixture of fuel and air. Understand?
Otherwise as every engine gets older and compression deteriorates with milleage you would need different type spark plugs every lets say 50.000km, OK?
And in real-world that is not the case as everybody knows!
Because ECE and RuF send exhaust gasses freely out of combustion chamber but KAT does not they are happy with hotter spar plugs.
For KAT car there is always backpressure from Pre-Cats and much higher thermal load on combustion chamber not just on exhaust valves. So it needs colder spark plugs. From this higher thermal load exhaust valves on KAT cars burn on contact surface and ECE/RuF cars don’t burn them (receive heat damage in form of small holes and imperfections)
I have experience with ECE after 250.000km exhaust valve seats were still like new at contact surface and another, the KAT one were already damaged surfaces after just 100.000km - please keep in mind that ECE exhaust valve seats are not bimetallic and of lower quality than KAT/RuF engines!
Therefore we have Forum advice - if you have Catalytic Converter and it has Main Cat under the car and two pre-Cats near exhaust manifold please remove them (precast) to protect your cylinder head and exhaust valve seats as soon as possible keeping only the main Catalyst converter (like Evo2 from factory)
KAT/RuF have Bimetal valve seats to make them more durable and are of much higher quality than factory ECE
But even that Hi Technology feature is not helping to overcome catalytic stress of close to manifold mounted pre-cats!
If cars consumes oil pre cats get clogged even sooner leading to Desaster!!!
This is the reason everybody love ECE or RuF, but RuF engines are more rare even than ECE!
So you are lucky having best of both worlds (same like my 2.5-16 RuF) - you have bimetallic valve seats on exhaust from factory but free flowing from exhaust that will never burn them like KAT do
PS if some Catalogue says for your car take H6DCO spark plugs not considering if you have Catalyst installed or not - that Catalogue is WRONG! Because even in Mercedes they were thinking back in 90s that owners of all RuF cars will convert them soon because of lower Tax, so to make it easy they say RUF or KAT engine we don’t care install same plugs as for KAT and Basta!
Che grande piacere per Motori nostri funziona senza Miseria di Catalizzatore

Saluti - N.